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Friday, July 06, 2007

widows in india



ghosts. even their kids think they're 'unlucky' and don't acknowledge them. they shave their heads (they're not allowed to look pretty), they have to beg for food and NO ONE wants them around.





women





WORSE then second class citizens





we must all stop treating the world's women like this



(married at 12 a widow at 15 and now 80 something - she lived her WHOLE life as a non-person)


Shunned from society, widows flock to city to die





By Araw Damon


VRINDAVAN, India (CNN) -- Ostracized by society, thousands of India's widows flock to the holy city of Vrindavan waiting to die. They are found on side streets, hunched over with walking canes, their heads shaved and their pain etched by hundreds of deep wrinkles in their faces.


These Hindu widows, the poorest of the poor, are shunned from society when their husbands die, not for religious reasons, but because of tradition -- and because they're seen as a financial drain on their families.
They cannot remarry. They must not wear jewelry. They are forced to shave their heads and typically wear white. Even their shadows are considered bad luck.
Hindus have long believed that death in Vrindavan will free them from the cycle of life and death. For widows, they hope death will save them from being condemned to such a life again. Watch how some widows are rebelling »
"Does it feel good?" says 70-year-old Rada Rani Biswas. "Now I have to loiter just for a bite to eat."................


picture: A widow makes her way in Vrindavan, India, where an estimated 15,000 widows live on the streets.

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

hey there...

i changed blogs again...


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no longer delawhare.blogspot

so hard to find people when you delete your blog..

anywhooooo good to find you again,

donviti

Neil Shakespeare said...

Yeah, pretty shameful. That caste system is shameful. Not that the maltreatment & neglect of old women is anything new. The "Crazy Mountains" in Montana are so named because old women were useless and burdens to the Native American tribes of the region and, when their productive lives were over they were sent up into the mountains to die where, understandably, they went crazy and their howling could be heard down in the valleys.

Unknown said...

donviti, i'll change your link in my sidebar (sometime today. i tried to do it now, but it's 1 am and i'm not seeing all that great)


wow mr shakespeare, i didn't know about the crazy mountains. nor did i know that about the old women in some native tribes.